Wednesday, May 6, 2009

I Wish You Enough
Recently I overheard a mother and daughter in their last moments together at the airport. They had announced the departure.
Standing near the security gate, they hugged & the mother said, 'I love you, and I wish you enough.'
The daughter replied, 'Mom, our life together has been more than enough. Your love is all I ever needed. I wish you enough, too, Mom.'
They kissed & the daughter left. The mother walked over to the window where I was seated.. Standing there I could see she wanted & needed to cry. I tried not to intrude on her privacy, but she welcomed me in by asking, 'Did you ever say good-bye to someone knowing it would be forever?'
'Yes, I have,' I replied. 'Forgive me for asking, but why is this a forever good-bye?'.
'I am old, and she lives so far away. I have challenges ahead & the reality is - the next trip back will be for my funeral,' she said.
'When you were saying good-bye, I heard you say, 'I wish you enough.' May I ask what that means?'
She began to smile. 'That's a wish that has been handed down from other generations. My parents used to say it to everyone.' She paused a moment and looked up as if trying to remember it in detail,she smiled even more. 'When we said, 'I wish you enough,' we were wanting the other person to have a life filled with just enough good things to sustain them.' Then turning toward me, she shared the following as if she were reciting it from memory.
I you enough sun to keep your attitude bright no matter how gray the day may appear.
I wish you enough rain to appreciate the sun even more.
I wish you enough happiness to keep your spirit alive & everlasting..
I wish you enough pain so that even the smallest of joys in life may appear bigger.
I wish you enough gain to satisfy your wanting.
I wish you enough loss to appreciate all that you possess.
I wish you enough hellos to get you through the final good-bye.She then began to cry and walked away.
They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them; but then an entire life to forget them.TAKE TIME TO LIVE... ...
To all my friends and loved ones,
I WISH YOU ENOUGH.
Thank you for all your thoughts and prayer

1 comment:

  1. Alana, I have heard and learnt many inspirational thoughts and ways to make a person's life more fulfilling for themselves and their loved ones around them. I must say when I cried while reading this...it sure went to the top of the list. When a baby is born their heart is pure and full of light, it is us adults who need to embrace this in ourselves and treasure all that we have...little things and big things. It takes hard work and unconditional love. Every day before I close my eyes at night I think of at least 5 things if not more of what I am grateful for during the day I have had. Some things are so small and some things are big. I have found over the years this has really helped me to understand others, myself and sitations more. Writing it down in a journal helps even better. Gratitude for everything is hard sometimes when life is not how you want it. But when you look back on your day it is sometimes easier. My love and prayers are with you today.
    Alana thank you...for being you!!!
    xoxoxxo Johanna

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